How tragedy shaped a person: Ray Hadley opens up about father’s death
It was Friday, August 22, 1975, when a young Ray Hadley was clocking off as a trainee auctioneer when his life changed forever.
Ray recalls he was on his way to visit his father in Nelson’s Bay when he received a phone call from a police officer.
The officer asked, “if I was the son of Arthur Morris Hadley”.
“I said yes.
“He regretfully informed me my father was deceased.”
At just 46-years-old, Ray’s father collapsed from a massive heart attack and died within minutes.
This tragic moment shaped Ray’s life in more ways than one.
“There isn’t a day that goes by that I don’t think of him and how much he would have loved his grandchildren and now his great-grandchild,” says Ray.
Most importantly it’s made Ray appreciate the value of keeping on top of your health.
“As a result of that family history I have regular heart health checks… and I do other checks as well.
“I do things that we all should do when we get to a certain age.”
Writing in The Daily Telegraph today, Ray is hoping to raise awareness about heart disease.
“For your family’s sake, please get to the doctor for a regular health check.
“My dad’s been gone now since 1975 but I can assure you he’s never forgotten,” says an emotional Ray.
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To learn more about heart disease go to the Heart Foundation’s website.
Feature image: This image has been digitally altered and was created as a present for Ray’s 60th birthday